Valentine's Day

My sister had bersambang to my house and talked all sorts while watching the news on TV, when there is information about the Valentine's Day in Teelevisi, spontaneously commented that my sister she said "really love to wear today, wrote that weird people"
My sister was responding to comments above, I asked "so you think Valentine's Day celebrations wrong" , He replied "let you go, brother, the love life any day, if you want to share the affection it should be every day dong ". I clap... clap... clap... clap... and said to him "well, you are great deck, I'm proud of you, because you were the person who is very clever and ingenious, more clever than the millions or billions of people out there, because there are millions out there are probably billions of people who celebrate this Valentine's Day, and they were all wrong all the way, they all do not understand that that affection should not just on Valentine's Day, only you are clever" . I heard that joke and satire, my brother was just grinning.My life has not been part of it to celebrate Valentine's Day, but my opinion this is not my issue pro or con on the valentine day is, but I am responding on logical thinking and arguing. - Solutions that are not trapped in the logic that is not usefulLogical Thinking and Arguing is?

1. Celebrating the heroes on the 10th day of November, the anniversary also means that it identifies the heroes of the idea that respect and value the services of the heroes only on the 10th of november it?

2. Celebrating the feast of Eid al-Fitr, also means that, stay in touch (silaturahiem), Greetings, celebrating food and drink, make sense of nature are, it just needs to be done on one day only?

3. Celebrating the anniversary (birthday), also means that the prayer asking for long life (such as who diekpresikanpada birthday song), given the increase was over, only needs to be done on a day that's birthday?

4. etc. and things like that.
Is the sound incredible, excited, and weird, if bejibun people in this world who celebrate Valentine's Day, is considered not understand about the values ​​of compassion and how to implement it, to the extent that they are all considered to be understood that the name of love yes indeed Valentine's Day is not the only one it wrote.Valentine's Day is a day of celebration to commemorate the moment, as well as other festive days. Respect the culture of others, as long as it does not violate the cultural norms and existing pertaruran. As well they will respect whatever your culture - Understand the difference wisely

Keberhasilan adalah Buah Kesabaran

Jangan terkecoh dengankeberhasilan seseorang. Dibalik kejayaan selalu ada jalan panjang yang berisikan catatan perjuangan dan pengorbanan, keringat dan kepayahan. Tak ada jalan pintas untuk sebuah kesuksesan. Bila anda terpesona pada kenyamanan yang siberikan oleh kesuksesan, anda bisa lupa dari keharusan untuk berupaya. Namun, bila anda terkagum pada ketegaran seseorang dala berusaha, maka anda telah menyerap sebuah energi kekuatan, keberanian dan kesabaran. Pohon besar mampu menahan terjangan badai karana memiliki batang dan akar yang kokoh. Belasan tahun diperlukan untuk menunbuhkan dan melatih kekuatan. Bulan demi bulan, hujan menguatkan jaringan kayunya. Tahun demi tahun, pohon-pohon besar lain melindungi dari terpaan hujan. Tak ada hitungan malam untuk mencetak sebongkah batang yang tegar. Tak ada hitungan siang untuk menumbuhkan akar yang kekar mencengkeram bumi. Hanya dengan kesabaran anda bisa meraih keberhasilan. Tumbuhlah kesabaran bukan sekedar kecepatan meraih sukses.

Hanyalah Sementara

Adakalanya tiba masa-masa sulit, yang membuat hidup terasa penuh kepedihan dan keluh kesah. Namun pada saatnya jua tibalah masa kegembiraan, yang membuta hidup terasa ringan dan terang. Tanpa sadar bibir kita basah dengan senyuman. Sesungguhnya kesedihan, kegembiraan, kekecewaan, keriangan, dan emosi-emosi lain hanyalah sementara. Sebagaimana sesaatnya malam ditelan siang. Tak selamanya kesedihan dan kegembiraan melanda Anda. Semua itu datang silih berganti, tanpa dapat selalu dinanti.
Yang perlu Anda pahami adalah kesementaraan ini. Kesementaraan menunjukkan bahwa emosi-emosi itu bukanlah milik Anda. Ia hanya sebuah tawaran dari alam yang menuntun tindakan dan sikap Anda. Ia bukanlah Anda. Saat gembira sadarilah kegembiraan itu. Saat sedih, pahamilah kesedihan itu. Saat Anda penuh dengan kesadaran akan emosi Anda , saat itu andabersentuhan dengan jiwa yang tenang milik Anda.

Cita Cita Terbesar

Dalam sebuah perjalanan hidup, cita-cita terbesar adalah menuju kesempurnaan. Ada kalanya kita mesti berjuang, serta belajar menyikapi segala rahasia dalam kehidupan.
Perjalanan menuju kesempurnaan adalah proses yang menentukan setiap tapak langkah kita. Setiap hembusan nafas, detak jantung, dari siang menuju malam. Semua menuju titik yang sama, kesempurnaan.
Setiap insan mempunyai hak yang sama atas waktu. Tidak ada seorangpun melebihi dari yang lain. Namun tak jarang setiap kita berbeda dalam mensikapinya. Ada yang berjuang untuk melewatinya dengan membunuh waktu. Tidak pula sedikit yang merasakan sempitnya kesempatan yang ia punya.
Apa rahasia terbesar dalam hidup ini? melewati hari ini dengan penuh makna. Makna tentang cinta, ilmu, dan iman. Dengan cinta hidup menjadi indah. Dengan ilmu hidup menjadi mudah. Dan dengan iman hidup menjadi terarah.

The King Leather Sandal

A Maharaja would go around the country to see the state of his people. He decided to walk alone. Just a few meters walk outside the palace of his leg was injured because of stumbling stone. He thought, "It was a walk in the country is very poor. I have to fix it. "

Maharaja then asked all the ministers palace. He was ordered to cover all roads in the country with the best cowhide. Soon the palace ministers make preparations. They collect the cows from all over the country.

In the midst of a tremendous rush, came a hermit, overlooking the Maharaja. He said the Maharaja, "O my lord, my lord why you want to create so many cow leather for lining the streets in this country, when in fact the sire need is two pieces of cowhide to coat the soles of the feet sire alone." It is said that since the world found that the skin foot coating that we call "Slippers".

reflections:
There are valuable lessons from the story. To make the world a comfortable place to live, sometimes, we must change our perspective, our hearts, and ourselves, not by changing the way the world is, or may even regret the fate which had happened in his life.

Because we are often mistaken in interpreting the world. World, in our minds, sometimes simply a personal form. World, we interpret as our own, which is our own players. No one else involved there, because, often in our view, the world, is a shadow of ourselves.

Yes, indeed, we pursue the path of life is steep and rocky. Where we choose, lining every street with a furry rug so we never feel the pain, or heart lining with leather upholstery, so that we can survive through the streets of that?

Hold the Hope

A husband and wife to hold merchandise on the pavement. At that evening down in a hurry. Street lights bright enough to illuminate their wares. On both sides of the pile of rubble surrounded the demolition market. In front of passing vehicles and the quick steps. Who are interested in buying? However, they both alternated greet and offer merchandise. Colorful kids t-shirt, handkerchief pack of three, little skirts, and who knows what else. "O husband and wife merchants, why you believe there is a purchase that merchandise. How do you bias peddle goods in the gloom and din like this? "

"We did not lose hope", so he replied. "That is the only force us. We do not know what and how to raise these efforts, but we know that hope will never abandon those who hold it. "Thank the little people who set the example and spread the hope of improvement in our lives. Those pillars that hold up the sky from collapse. They're dimming the blazing sun of life that sometimes feels hot to burn.

Sebentang Jaring Kepercayaan

Bila anda tak percaya pada seseorang, maka kebaikan apa pun yang dilakukan tetap mengundang keraguan dalam diri anda. Tanpa disadari anda mendapati selalu saja ada kesalahan dalam tindakannya. Ketidakpercayaan menyanyat lebih tajam daripada kritik pedas.
Sebaliknya, bila anda percaya pada seseorang, semua kekeliruan yang dilakukannya adalah titik tolak untuk melakukan perbaikan. Tanpa disadari anda terdorong untuk membenahi dan mengisi kekurangan yang ada. Kepercayaan adalah jaringan penyelamat bagi setiap peloncat yang gagal.

Keberhasilan bukan hanya karena kerja keras anda sendiri, pasti ada sebentang jaringan kepercayaan yang dihamparkan oleh para pembimbing anda. Sedangkan kegagalan seringkali diakibatkan gagalnya meraih kepercayaan orang lain.
Uniknya, anda hanya akan meraih kepercayaan manakala anda mau mempercayain orang lain pula. Tali yang kuat terpilih dalam simpul yang kuat. Saling mempercayai adalah simpul yang jauh lebih kuat.

risking life

In front of his students, one teacher described the experience of meeting someone of former veteran soldier of World War II aviator. One day, soldiers must work on forest highway project in Myanmar.

Flight distance is quite far and long. To relieve the boredom as well as leisure, the workers were gambling with cards. Initially they bet on the currency and assets attached to the body. Well, the longer because there is no longer at stake, they bet with his life. The loser had to jump out of airplanes without a parachute. Imagine that!

"What a horrible and cruel they are!" Shouted one student heard the story. "True," replied the Master, "But with the game so it would be more fun!"

Then he continued, "You can only be grateful to live where ever risk it."

Reach With All That You Have

Achieve something that is not limited to the job at hand. If you want to achieve with all that you have, nothing is unattainable. Railah by foot. If something is not currently tergapai, move, until it is within reach.

Move toward the goal, rather than waiting for your move to your destination. Reach with your mind. Visualize your goal. Look at it clearly in your mind, and you'll begin to reach. Use your intellect to develop a realistic plan and action plan.

Reach for the imagination. Be creative in reaching. There are always many ways to achieve each goal. Use your imagination to work and develop all opportunities. If one path is blocked, imagine a dozen alternative and most likely follow.
Reach for the spirit. Feel the joy in every moment of life and you will develop within oneself, a sense of fulfillment. So many things you can accomplish if you are sincerely grateful for the things you already have.

Sail Toward Hope Coast

You are a sturdy boat that could hold the weight, made ​​from the finest wood, with a gallant display against the wind. Your authenticity is sailing the oceans, through the storm and found the coast of hope. No matter how great the boat made ​​no use if it is only tied to the pier.

Dock is your past. Mooring rope is your fear and remorse. Do not throw in vain all the powers bestowed on you. Do not let past your berth in siti. Disconnect yourself from the fear and remorse. Sail. To work.

That separates the beach boat with hope is a hurricane, the waves and rocks. That separates you with success is a challenging problem. That's where the sign of authenticity tested. Essentially the boat is sailing through all obstacles. Nature of the work yourself to find happiness.

Kepercayaan Diri

Banyak orang pandai menyarankan agar kita memiliki suatu kepercayaan diri yang kuat. Pertanyaannya adalah diri yang manakah yang patut kita percayai? Apakah panca indera kita? Padahal kejituan panca indera seringkali tak lebih tumpul dari ujung pena yang patah. Apakah tubuh fisik kita? Padahal sejalan dengan lajunya usia, kekuatan tubuh memuai seperti lilin terkena panas. Ataukah pikiran kita? Padahal keunggulan pikiran tak lebih luas dari setetes air di samudera ilmu. Atau mungkin perasaan kita? Padahal ketajaman perasaan seringkali tak mampu menjawab persoalan logika. Lalu diri yang manakah yang patut kita percayai?
Semestinya kita tak memecah-belah diri menjadi berkeping- keping seperti itu. Diri adalah diri yang menyatukan semua pecahan-pecahan diri yang kita ciptakan sendiri. Kesatuan itulah yang disebut dengan integritas. Dan hanya sebuah kekuatan dari dalam diri yang paling dalam lah yang mampu merengkuh menyatukan anda. Diri itulah yang patutnya anda percayai, karena ia mampu menggenggam kekuatan fisik, keunggulan pikiran dan kehalusan budi anda.

Kelenturan Sikap

Bila anda menganggap bahwa mengatasi setiap persoalan butuh kekuatan pendirian, ketangguhan otot, dan kekerasan kemauan, maka anda separuh benar.
Sebuah batu cadas yang keras hanya bisa segera dihancurkan dengan mengerahkan segenap daya kuat. Oleh karenanya, banyak orang melatih diri agar semakin kuat, semakin tangguh dan semakin tegar.
Namun, seringkali kenyataan tak bisa dihadapi dengan pendirian kuat, atau diatasi dengan ketangguhan otot, atau dipecahkan dengan kemauan keras. Ada banyak hal yang tak
bisa anda terima, namun harus anda terima.
Maka, senantiasa anda membutuhkan sebuah kelenturan sikap. Bukanlah kelenturan sikap pertanda kelemahan, melainkan sebuah kekuatan untuk menghadapi segala sesuatu sebagaimana ia ada. Bila anda menganggap bahwa mengatasi persoalan adalah dengan menerima persoalan itu, maka anda menemukan separuh benar yang lain.

we who create the problem

Household problem is never exhausted in peeled, whether in print, radio, screen, and in consultation rooms. "From about sexual harassment, cheating, wife of co-wife, to a husband who does not meet the biological needs of a wife." Says a spiritual consultant in Jakarta.
Incidentally, a close friend had a problem. The story, with age, plus a rising career wives, even leading to marriage kehidupa cool. As there is nothing hidden. Familiarity and excitement that had been lost dipunya family. The wife seemed preoccupied with the affairs of the office.
'What shall I do, "the expression of this man. Spiritual counseling was suggested that he fasted three days, and every night praying tahajud compulsory prayer and prostration of gratitude. "Try to get closer to God, God willing masalahanya light. After that, you take your wife on the way home. "He suggested.
Okay. A suggestion is easily fulfilled. Three days later, he contacted his wife. "How about tonight we ate at the restaurant," he said. Istriny not mind. Special food was ordered, as the redeemer vapidity of the household.
Yeah, right. At the restaurant, she admitted frankly have double the love. He had a male friend to confide. Her husband was shocked. His face was as if slapped. Delicious food in depanya not in touch. His mouth as if locked, but unwilling to accept his thunderous confession "was.
No wonder he always reasoned tired, lazy, or not excited when touched. No wonder, one night she pretended to sleep while holding cellphones, but the tool is still showing signs of wearing out the signal-connect with someone. Also, among others, gave birth to a lie by lie.
Unexpectedly, the candor that has been tearing at the heart of this man. Candor that just led to a deep hurt. Or even, more bitter than that. Hti this man as if demanding, "If I do not demand your advice, of course, the problem is not this bad."
The consultant who was accused of, "Come throw in mourning." Why kick back. "Did not I suggest to take your wife on the way home, not in the restaurant?" For ordinary people, restaurants and homes just a place. Nothing more. But, in the eyes of the paranormal, a place to bring a "destiny" of its own.
And that's what happened. Candor can not be removed. He has recorded its own history. So the best way to react is like a wise man said, "Do not get used to seeing the truth of one side only."
Wood has become charcoal. We must not run away from reality, even bitter. Falsehoods and lies that you want can be a part of our behavior nevertheless. "We always forget that we are fully responsible for ourselves. We are creating the problem, we also have to meyelesaikannya. "Said the sage.
Bitter, sweet and sour, salty bland, it's a risk. It was none other living tips are skilled and wise choices in prioritizing

DON'T FORCE !

A grandfather was walking around while holding his granddaughter on the outskirts of rural roads. They found a turtle. The boy picked it up and watch him watch it. Turtle was immediately pulled into his legs and his head under the shell. The boy tried to open it by force.

"Doing so will never make it, boy!" Said grandfather, "I will try to teach you."

Their home. Grandfather put the turtles in the nearby fireplace. A few minutes later, it issued a turtle legs and head, little by little. He began to crawl to move toward the child.

"Do not try to force doing every thing else, boy!" Grandfather's advice, "Bring the warmth and friendliness, he would respond."

Melawan Diri Sendiri

Kemenangan sejati bukanlah kemenangan atas orang lain. Namun, kemenangan atas diri sendiri. Berpacu di jalur keberhasilan diri adalah pertandingan untuk mengalahkan rasa ketakutan, keengganan, keangkuhan, dan semua beban yang menambat diri di tempat start.
Jerih payah untuk mengalahkan orang lain sama sekali tak berguna. Motivasi tak semestinya lahir dari rasa iri, dengki atau dendam. Keberhasilan sejati memberikan kebahagiaan yang sejati, yang tak mungkin diraih lewat niat yang ternoda.

Pelari yang berlari untuk mengalahkan pelari yang lain, akan tertinggal karena sibuk mengintip laju lawan-lawannya. Pelari yang berlari untuk memecahkan recordnya sendiri tak peduli apakah pelari lain akan menyusulnya atau tidak. Tak peduli dimana dan siapa lawan-lawannya. Ia mencurahkan seluruh perhatian demi perbaikan catatannya sendiri.
Ia bertading dengan dirinya sendiri, bukan melawan orang lain. Karenanya, ia tak perlu bermain curang. Keinginan untuk mengalahkan orang lain adalah awal dari kekalahan diri sendiri.

the core of all policy

That said, there is a clever young king. He ordered all the leading professors in the kingdom to come together and write all the wisdom of this world. Their immediate work and forty years later, they have produced thousands of books containing wisdom. The king, who by then had reached the age of sixty years, said to them, "I might not be able to read thousands of books. Summarize the basics of all wisdom. "

After ten years of work, the professor managed to summarize all the wisdom of the world in one hundred volumes.
"It's still too much," said the King. "I am seventy years old. Squeeze all the wisdom it into the core of the most basic.

So the wise men were tried again and squeeze out all the wisdom of this world in just one book.
But in those days the king lay on his death bed.
Then the leader of the professor's policies to squeeze more into just one statement, "Human life and suffering, and death. The only thing that still survives is love. "

silence is golden

When you do not have words to talk about, just shut up. Quite easy to know when to speak. However, knowing when to rest is something far different. One function is to clenched lips. How can you pay attention and listen to the speaking tongue. Be still, for the sake of clarity of your vision.

People who are able to dwell in the midst of a desire to speak were able to find her self-awareness. Once you open your mouth, you will see how many of the sentences glide unnoticed. Perhaps a small part the words you do not want. Often men slipped by a small pebble, not a big rock. Beautiful pearl grains can only be created when the pearl tightly pursed lips. Once he opens wide the shell, the sea of sand and dirt will soon meet his mouth.

This is like, force you to shut up. Policy meetings are often stored in the silent sages. For that you need desperately trying to open it. Is not the saying goes, "silence is golden"

be grateful

Try to set aside a moment to give thanks for the good things in your life. Reflect on what you have accomplished, the people who pay attention to you, you've got the experience, expertise and interests that you have; what you believe, and most beautiful things in your life.

Things that you cherish, maintain, and will keep growing in your life. Abundance begins with gratitude. With sincere gratitude, you appreciate what you have, which in turn will push you mentally, spiritually, and physically to achieve whatever your goal.

How could you get things bigger, if you are not grateful for what you have today? Yet all of them, can only begin with what you already have it.
You know, that you can achieve the goal, because you've pioneered things like that. The experience is yours to be thankful for. Who says there is nothing to be thankful for?

Everything is within your reach when you are thankful for what you get.

You're not alone

Kesepian anda bukan karena tiadanya orang di sekitar anda, namun karena tiadanya seseorang di hati anda. Anda dapat kehilangan saat-saat yang berharga. Yaitu ketika anda suatu saat merasa enggan untuk memberikan bantuan pada orang yang membutuhkan. Saat mengulurkan pertolongan, tanpa sadar anda menjalin hati anda dan hati orang lain dengan dawai emas yang tak tampak. Dawai itu bernama persaudaraan. Semakin banyak anda menjalin dawai semakin jauh hati anda dari kesepian. Karena dawai-dawai itu akan mendentingkan nada nada yang memenuhi dan menghibur jiwa.

Bangkitlah dan tebarkan uluran tangan anda. Segaris senyum dan tatapan mata yang bersahabat cukup untuk membangunkan bahwa anda sama sekali tidak sendiri.

Arti sebuah kemenangan

Kemenangan bukanlah hanya ketika kita berhasil mengalahkan lawan di suatu pertandingan. Dan bukan hanya ketika kita berhasil mencapai prestasi terbaik. Bahkan, bukan hanya ketika kita berhasil mendapatkan semua yang kita inginkan dalam hidup ini.
Tapi, kemenangan adalah saat di mana kita dapat melawan suatu kegagalan. Saat di mana kita dapat mengatasi musibah. Saat di mana kita dapat bangkit dari suatu keadaan yang menyedihkan. Dan, saat di mana kita merasa sangat terpuruk namun kita mampu berjuang menghancurkan semua cobaan itu.
Kemenangan adalah saat di mana kita dapat menjadikan itu semua sebagai pertanda betapa sayangnya Sang Maha Pencipta kepada kita. Saat dimana kita menyadari betapa kita dapat belajar banyak dari semua kegagalan yang kita alami.
Dan, kemenangan adalah saat di mana kita melangkah begitu mantap dan yakin bahwa kita begitu hebat untuk sekedar melawan suatu kegagalan kecil. Saat dimana kita dapat mengalahkan diri kita sendiri, sehingga kadang-kadang kita merindukan sebuah kegagalan. Karena kegagalanlah yang membuat kita sadar di mana kita berada.