we who create the problem

Household problem is never exhausted in peeled, whether in print, radio, screen, and in consultation rooms. "From about sexual harassment, cheating, wife of co-wife, to a husband who does not meet the biological needs of a wife." Says a spiritual consultant in Jakarta.
Incidentally, a close friend had a problem. The story, with age, plus a rising career wives, even leading to marriage kehidupa cool. As there is nothing hidden. Familiarity and excitement that had been lost dipunya family. The wife seemed preoccupied with the affairs of the office.
'What shall I do, "the expression of this man. Spiritual counseling was suggested that he fasted three days, and every night praying tahajud compulsory prayer and prostration of gratitude. "Try to get closer to God, God willing masalahanya light. After that, you take your wife on the way home. "He suggested.
Okay. A suggestion is easily fulfilled. Three days later, he contacted his wife. "How about tonight we ate at the restaurant," he said. Istriny not mind. Special food was ordered, as the redeemer vapidity of the household.
Yeah, right. At the restaurant, she admitted frankly have double the love. He had a male friend to confide. Her husband was shocked. His face was as if slapped. Delicious food in depanya not in touch. His mouth as if locked, but unwilling to accept his thunderous confession "was.
No wonder he always reasoned tired, lazy, or not excited when touched. No wonder, one night she pretended to sleep while holding cellphones, but the tool is still showing signs of wearing out the signal-connect with someone. Also, among others, gave birth to a lie by lie.
Unexpectedly, the candor that has been tearing at the heart of this man. Candor that just led to a deep hurt. Or even, more bitter than that. Hti this man as if demanding, "If I do not demand your advice, of course, the problem is not this bad."
The consultant who was accused of, "Come throw in mourning." Why kick back. "Did not I suggest to take your wife on the way home, not in the restaurant?" For ordinary people, restaurants and homes just a place. Nothing more. But, in the eyes of the paranormal, a place to bring a "destiny" of its own.
And that's what happened. Candor can not be removed. He has recorded its own history. So the best way to react is like a wise man said, "Do not get used to seeing the truth of one side only."
Wood has become charcoal. We must not run away from reality, even bitter. Falsehoods and lies that you want can be a part of our behavior nevertheless. "We always forget that we are fully responsible for ourselves. We are creating the problem, we also have to meyelesaikannya. "Said the sage.
Bitter, sweet and sour, salty bland, it's a risk. It was none other living tips are skilled and wise choices in prioritizing